Learn how to trust deeply in yourself by connecting to your intuition – it’s your own internal compass and it’s there for you always. it’s simply a matter of learning the language it speaks and trusting it.
If you want to have good sex – to give pleasure and receive it – you need to communicate both your own wants, needs, and desires to your partner, and to ask them what works for them as well.
The myth that someone should just be able to ‘feel into you’ and if they can hit all your spots, they must be ‘the right one’ needs to die.