6 ways to feel more feminine – connect with the Queen within

When we play in the space of the feminine with the purpose of amplifying more of her within us, it can be extremely helpful to tap into the different ways that she shows up in the world and move from those set points or archetypes.

You can think of an archetype as a description or typology of the feminine as it manifests or is expressed in the world. Simply put, archetypes represent the many ways that feminine energy shows up in the world. 

In the 6 archetypes expressed below*, you may recognise aspects of yourself that you express easily. 

And others that feel foreign or ‘just not you’. I challenge you to play in the space of each of these and expand into your potential to uniquely express each.  

In actual fact, all of the ways of ‘woman’ already exist within you. It’s just that some aspects are expressed and realised more fully than others. 

Now is your chance to expand into more of you and the feminine aspect you hold within. 

Queen of Love – The Romantic

She is sensual and soft and moves through the cycles of life with easy pleasure. She has deep passion and easy beauty that comes from the inside out. She’s a dreamer and a creative visioner of what could be. 

She is pure love, warmth, innocence and has a heart that’s full and ready to give. She receives gestures of love of all forms with grace and goodness. 

She captivates and draws love in through her sweet effervescence. 

Queen of Power – The Huntress

She is at once fiercely independent, a natural leader in life and an incredible partner in love. 

She is not afraid to take risks and is naturally confident in decision making. 

She knows who and what she is, holds clear boundaries and commands respect from those around her. Her heart is generous and she holds a natural balance between mind, body and spirit. She moves easily in her body and is in flow with the natural movement of her world.


Queen of Seduction – The Sensualist

This woman transforms passionate play into deeper relationships and harness the power of the sacred erotic for this purpose. 

She is fully connected to joy and to pleasure as it’s experienced through the body. She is companion and confidante both in love. Luxury and abundance are hers to have and to enjoy fully. She is extroversion and mystery both and the paradox is intoxicating. He naturally attracts attention, emanates sensuality and captivates with little or no effort at all. She feels good in her body and embraces who and what she is including how she looks with generosity and gratitude. She loves who she is and this makes it easy for others to as well. 


Queen of Wisdom – The Sage

She is wise from lived experience and knowledge acquired over time. She is committed to deeper purpose, knows her values and stays connected to her truth. She holds practiced mastery in realizing her vision. She is strategic, resourceful and has perspective and objectivity. Her depth fascinates and the sense of mystery she holds is layered and intensely alluring. She cultivates community and belonging creating stability through shared connection. 


Queen of Creation – The Mother

She is nurture, protection and creation. An excellent listener, compassionate and a natural giver, she fosters lasting heart-centered relationships easily. She is grounded, stabilizing, and it feels safe and nourishing to be by her side. She knows how to take care of herself so that she can enjoy her life fully – and also be there for others as this gives her great joy. She has a gift for healing heart and soul and is loved and appreciated for this. She perseveres and can endure by grounding into herself and the natural world around her. 


Queen of Wild – The Mystic

The Queen of Wild connects easily with the natural world and the life that runs through it, grounding her in safety, deep connection with the earth and its inherent stability. She moves with the cycle of the seasons, deeply in tune with the constant of change. This rhythm is her flow. Untamed and free in her expression, she surrenders to spirit, to ecstasy and orgasmic bliss. The cosmos too moves within her. She never questions herself and welcomes the magic and mystery of the unknown with open arms. This deep connection with all that is gives her a sense of inner peace and calm even as she surrenders wholly to the unpredictable wildness of life and existence.


*Informed and inspired by the work of Ayesha K. Faines and Layla Martin.