We’re deep into winter now. ❄ And deep into dating season.
And if you are deep into the dating season you are probably feeling the ups and downs of good dates, bad dates .. no dates.. and everything in between. 🎢
It all feels wobbly and uncertain, like the ground moving under your feet.
And you start to doubt yourself – whether you’ll ever find anyone, whether you can face another disappointment, whether it’s maybe your wardrobe or the way you wear your hair…💇♀
You just want dating to feel easy. Dare you hope for fun? And that one of these times it actually turns into something that feels a bit more real. And good. And right.
And just for you.
So I’m going to ask that you get off that roller coaster for good.
Come back around again...back to YOURSELF.
Yep, that person in there that maybe you’ve lost touch with as you try to schedule a million dates – hey it’s a numbers game, right? ➕➖➗
The sparkly version of you that’s dulled herself down because she’s not sure that being herself is really getting her anywhere.
And who has told herself that she doesn’t care that much anymore anyway so that the pain of another bad date isn’t quite so acute.
I’m asking you to come back around to yourself again because it’s essential. To dating. And in life.
It’s how you set yourself on cruise control so that you are steady and calm no matter what happens on a date (or when you’re on a dating hiatus).
On cruise control, dating becomes a no-brainer.
Because YOU are the steadiness. YOU are the deep peace and calm. 😌
So no matter what happens, you are good. And you’ve learned.
And when you are connected to all parts of yourself deeply, you are truly free. Free to flirt, to have fun, to show the sparkles...and that’s what draws in love.
The love that you are. AND the sexiness. AND the sensuality.
In this video I talk about 4 ways to get back to yourself and off the roller coaster:
How + why to stay in your body when you are on a date
Avoid mirroring the other person until all parts of you (pussy, heart, mind) are on board
Come back to your centre after the date
Know yourself intimately and love her - this is what makes you MAGNETIC
I explain each of these magic tools in detail so that you are sooooo attractive to someone that they can’t resist you.