If you want to have good sex – to give pleasure and receive it – you need to communicate both your own wants, needs, and desires to your partner, and to ask them what works for them as well.
The myth that someone should just be able to ‘feel into you’ and if they can hit all your spots, they must be ‘the right one’ needs to die.
3 stages to getting better dates faster with great women online.
In any good, healthy conversation there is balance.
The quality of the exchange is based on each person’s ability to both
share authentically and meaningfully
and feel seen and heard
It’s a 50/50 balance that’s established from the first few messages with someone.
Here’s how to establish and maintain this balance
So that you can go from right swipe to first and then second date more quickly and easily than before.
And actually enjoy the flow.
How to have better sex: connection + consent with Nichi Hodgson
I want you to jump from two feet into the bedroom, when you feel finally ready to be intimate with a certain someone you might have just started dating.
And not only that, I want you to have the best sex possible when you do.
And so, I wanted to break out this bit of a conversation from a video I had posted a few weeks back with Nichi Hodgson, journalist on all things sexy for the likes of the Guardian and Sky News that will help you to do so.You see, consent is key to connection. And connection is the key to great sex. Especially if you are new to dating someone.
You can only be confident in your sexiness – truly confident – if you know your body inside and out.
And self-pleasure is possibly THE best way to do that.
Imagine that you trusted your body completely, that you knew exactly what she wanted and needed at any time, and that you felt safe in your own sexiness. I'm talking about YOU being in charge here, no one else.
Would that make you feel confident in dating? Hell yes!
Would that make you feel confident in bed? That's another hell yes!! (Even got 2 exclams)
And that confidence radiates into your whole life.
The building blocks of a good strong relationship begin in dating. And knowing how to ‘date well’ and ‘choose well’ is critical to you getting the long-lasting beautiful love that you want.
We explore how to move beyond bewildering biology and brainy analysis by embracing both and adding a bit of consciousness to the mix so that you can make a top choice in love.
Can you remember when it was easy to flirt. You felt amazing inside and being playful and teasing was just a natural way to be? Maybe now you're not feeling quite so confidence anymore or you are just too tired to try. Let's get you back to good so you can have fun with flirting and play in the world again.
